Counselling

Many couples arrive in counselling believing they have an “intimacy problem.” Often, what they are really experiencing is disconnection, fatigue, and unmet emotional needs, rather than a lack of desire or love. In recent years, couples have become more open about talking about intimacy beyond sex frequency. There is a growing recognition that intimacy is not just about what happens in the bedroom, but about how safe, seen, and emotionally close two people feel in everyday lif

Communication and connection remain the number one reason couples seek counselling — not because they argue too much, but because one or both partners feel unseen, unheard, or emotionally alone. Many couples tell me: “We talk all the time, but nothing changes.” “They hear the words, but they don’t get me.” “I feel like I’m always explaining myself.” This kind of disconnection isn’t about poor communication skills alone. It’s about missed emotional connection, misunderstood in

Life is full of transitions. Some chosen, some unexpected, and many that may look “positive” from the outside. A new job. A move. A child starting school. A relationship ending. A loved one going into aged care. A shift in identity, routine, health, or direction. These changes can shape us in profound ways, but they can also hurt in ways people rarely talk about and often suffer in silence from. This hurt has a name: transitional grief. As a grief counsellor, I see transition

When people think about communication in relationships, they usually think about talking. Talking things through. Explaining clearly. Finding the right words. But communication is far more than verbal exchange. In fact, most relational communication happens without words at all. Understanding communication in its full sense, verbal and non-verbal, can be one of the most powerful shifts a couple makes toward deeper connection, emotional safety, and trust. What Is Communicatio

Have you ever looked around at the end of the day and wondered, “How did I work so hard and still feel like I got nothing done?” Maybe your mind jumps between twelve tabs of thoughts. Your to-do list never seems to shrink. Or you struggle to start tasks until the pressure is overwhelming. For many teens and adults, this daily exhaustion isn’t a lack of motivation — it’s ADHD. Understanding how your brain works is the first step toward feeling in control again. ADHD comes wit

Sudden death shatters the world in an instant. One moment life is moving forward as expected; the next, everything feels different, disorienting, and painfully unreal. Whether the loss happened through an accident, cardiac event, suicide, overdose, medical crisis, or any situation without time to prepare, the shock can leave people feeling frozen, numb, or overwhelmed.

Deciding whether to see a counsellor can feel overwhelming. You might find yourself asking: "How do I know if I need a counsellor?" or "Are my struggles “serious enough” for counselling?" The truth is, counselling isn’t only for people in crisis. It’s a safe and supportive space to talk about whatever is weighing on you. This could be daily stress, big life changes, or feelings you can’t quite make sense of. If you’ve been wondering whether

When someone you care about is grieving, it’s natural to want to support them. But knowing how to support them — what to say, what not...

The only thing constant in life is change. Life is full of change and transitions. Some are joyful — like the birth of a child or...

If you’ve been through a divorce or separation, you might be surprised by how deeply sadness, confusion, or even relief can mix together. You may tell yourself it’s “for the best,” yet still feel a painful emptiness, a quiet grief that can’t be explained easily. That ache isn’t weakness or regret. It’s grief. Many people don’t realise

Major life changes often arrive without warning—or they build slowly until everything shifts at once. Whether it’s a divorce, loss of a...

Starting counselling can feel overwhelming, but understanding what to expect in your first session can help ease your nerves. In this guide, I’ll walk you through the process, from the initial welcome to goal-setting, and explain how we can work together to support your mental health. Whether you’re navigating anxiety, grief, or life transitions, this post will give you a clearer picture of what happens in your first session

Counselling is often misunderstood, and these misconceptions can sometimes hold people back from reaching out for help. While counselling...

Life can feel overwhelming, but you don’t have to face it alone. Counselling creates a safe, non-judgmental space where you can explore your emotions, gain clarity, and move forward at your own pace. Whether you're navigating a tough season or simply seeking personal growth, support is available—and you deserve it.

Life can become overwhelming sometimes. Counselling can help to gain clarity and strength to continue moving forward in those tough times.