Getting an ADHD diagnosis later in life is often described as a relief. And for many people, it is… at first. Things start to make sense. There’s a name for what you’ve been experiencing. You can finally stop asking “what is wrong with me?” But then something else often shows up. Something quieter. Heavier. Harder to explain. Grief. Not the kind of grief we usually talk about. Not grief tied to losing someone. But grief for something just as real, the life that could have bee